The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks

Do you ever worry that you are too strict or too lenient? Questioning all your parenting choices? In this heartfelt and hilariously honest encore episode, Vanessa Quigley is joined by her sister Leah (fellow mom of seven!) for a deep dive into the chaos, comedy, and total emotional overload of motherhood. From rage-cleaning the car to crying in the pantry, they open up about the moments that push moms to the edge—and how to find your way back.

Together, they share vulnerable confessions, real tips that actually work (yes, even sex gets a moment), and crowd-sourced wisdom from the incredible MomForce community. Whether you're overwhelmed by toddlers, teens, or just the dinner dishes, this episode will make you feel seen, laugh, and remember: you're doing better than you think.

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7:30 We are all human. It's normal to reach a breaking point. 

9:05 Words from the MomForce community about bad days as a mom. 

11:30 When Meghan Markle admitted that she's not okay. 

14:00 How to institute a "room of tranquility". 

16:15 The mental load and how to identify your needs. 

21:00 Ask for attention and time with your husband when you are feeling stressed. 

26:00 Smiling is science! 

28:00 The magic of an 8 second hug.  

In this heartfelt season finale of the MomForce Podcast, Vanessa Quigley is joined by Chatbooks CMO, and fellow mom, Karen Peterson for a conversation that every parent will feel in their bones. Together, they open up about the emotional rollercoaster of parenting milestones, from preschool graduations and big-kid beds to the life-shifting moment of sending a child off to college.

They reflect on the beauty of “lasts and firsts,” the myth of control in motherhood, and the power of reframing painful transitions as sacred moments. Karen shares her personal journey raising her son Gavin, a sought after D1-bound wheelchair basketball athlete who defied the odds after being born with spina bifida. She recounts the early years, where simple, difficult moments like coaxing Gavin through tears with a walker at the back of Costco laid the foundation for the independence and strength he now carries into adulthood.

They also talk candidly about the grief and growth that comes with change, the emotional whiplash of summer parenting, and how moms so often hold themselves to impossible standards. Whether you’re deep in toddler chaos or navigating an emptying nest, this episode is a reminder that you're doing better than you think. 

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5:15 Reframing lasts into firsts 

5:45 We are supporting characters in our children's lives 

7:20 Realizing you have a lot less control than you think you actually do 

9:45 The reality of being a parent of a D1 athlete 

10:56 Our kids are our greatest teachers 

14:00 Every stage of motherhood has hard moments 

15:29 Photos help remind us of all of the hard things we've made it through 

18:48 Life transitions are all about the "and" to process all the feelings 

22:40 You are the perfect parent for your child. You know what your child needs even if other parents judge you. 

25:40 Live in the moment this summer. Chatbooks will be there for you when school is back in session! 

When Neha Ruch left her high-powered career to become a stay-at-home mom, she didn’t see it as stepping back—she saw it as stepping into something deeper. In this episode, Neha, founder of The Power Pause and author of the book by the same name, shares how embracing a career pause led her to a more grounded, intentional version of ambition. She talks candidly about identity shifts in motherhood, the surprising ways her family has grown from her presence at home, and how we can all challenge hustle culture in favor of something more meaningful. This is a conversation for anyone navigating the messy, beautiful in-between of motherhood and self. As Neha says, "it doesn't have to be an identity crisis, it can be an identity evolution". 

5:00 Choosing to leave a career in the height of the girl boss era. 

8:07 Look at the vast gray area between full-time working or full-time staying at home. 

11:30 What language you can use to convey that you are spending your time with your kids instead of "stay at home mom". 

23:30 Goals dignify time. A career pause is not a life pause. 

26:45 The importance of personal development while parenting. 

29:40 A woman's career is a long game. 

33:43 "I resist the culturally induced urge to dream bigger. What if this is my big dream?"

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She’s back! In this special return episode, Vanessa catches up with Myriam Sandler of @mothercould, who first joined The MomForce Podcast three years ago, and a lot has changed since then. Myriam is now a published author, and her new book, Playful By Design, is a tool for parents everywhere to rethink how they approach play at home.

From her viral take—“I hardly play with my kids”—to her genius strategies for cultivating independent play, Myriam shares how creating the right environment (not more Pinterest crafts) is the secret to raising curious, confident kids. As she puts it:

“Yes, I engage and connect with them… but I’ve built a space where they can play on their own and that’s the goal.”

Vanessa and Myriam also dive into:

• The unexpected power of Play Dough  

• Why chia seed goop is a sensory win and a parental cautionary tale

• How to turn “no” moments into easy yeses

• And how Chatbooks photo books are actually made for kids to relive their own stories

This conversation is full of real talk, practical tips, and plenty of laughs—especially if you’ve ever found slime in your carpet! I know you are going to love it. 

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5:35 Why Myriam "doesn't play with her kids" 

9:36 The weirdest thing Myriam has made for her kids. 

10:47 Why Myriam is not afraid of messes at her house 

15:20 How Myriam organizes her family memories 

22:17 What is the balance between sensory play and your sanity as a mom?

29:28 Connection is at the heart of everything 

32:39 How to approach alone time and self care -- without guilt! 

Today’s episode is extra special—it’s our Mother’s Day episode, and I’ve got my oldest daughter, Laken, in the studio with me! I’ve been wanting to have her on the podcast for a long time, and since she was in town this past week, I finally convinced her to sit down and chat about motherhood.

If you don’t already know her, you’re going to love her. She’s the most amazing mom to my granddaughter, Mauve, and she’s been a huge part of this podcast since the very beginning—six seasons ago! She actually wrote and recorded our theme song and has been our audio engineer ever since. I’m seriously so lucky to work alongside her... and even luckier to be her mom.

In this episode, we swap stories, laugh a lot, and share a few lessons we’ve learned along the way as a mother and daughter. It's a little peek into the beautiful (and sometimes messy) reality of family life—from both sides of the generation gap. Think of it as a celebration of the little moments that make it all worth it—and a reminder of why we do what we do at Chatbooks.

We also know that Mother’s Day can bring up all kinds of emotions. For some, it’s a day full of joy. For others, it might feel bittersweet or even heavy. However you’re feeling this year, please know we see you, we’re thinking of you, and we’re sending you so much love. 

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4:30 Expectations on your first Mother's Day as a new mom 

8:30 What it is like to see your daughter become a mother 

15:00 "Family Fandangos!"

21:15 Moments in your parenting journey when you have to step into the role of mother 

23:20 The drawbacks of parenting in the age of social media

29:01 Why Monthbooks are the greatest gift for a grandma 

33:00 Behind the Scenes of the newest top secret project at Chatbooks

40:00 The ups and downs of parenting through the teen years 

44:00 The different seasons of life and motherhood that you can lean into as an artist

47:08 Mom as a camp counselor/daughter as a camper dilemma 

50:00 "I hope you will do better than we did" 

If you haven’t come across RaQuel yet—aka The Capacity Expert—that’s about to change. With bold, truth-telling videos that are equal parts empowering and uncomfortable, RaQuel is shaking up the mental health conversation in all the best ways. 

Instead of prescribing prevalent self care solutions like bubble baths and spa days, RaQuel invites us into deeper work—work that involves honesty, self-responsibility, and a better understanding of what we’re actually capable of.

I brought questions straight from our MomForce community to this conversation, and RaQuel delivered. You're going to be challenged, in the best way, and inspired to think differently about your own capacity.

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5:00 Why RaQuel is disrupting the mental health space. 

6:05 Capacity is strength 

7:15 Why don't the self care practices society prescribes work?

9:43 The power of choice and how to avoid playing a victim 

11:00 Does a diagnosis limit your capacity? 

14:51 What to do about volatile emotions during pregnancy

17:49 When do you know it's time to get professional help? 

21:45 How to explore your relationship with responsibility 

22:30 How to find low cost therapy 

27:50 Feeling discomfort is an opportunity to grow 

34:40 Why we pathologized struggle 

Today's episode is a special one that is close to my heart. I am sharing my unexpected journey from dreaming of Broadway to becoming the co-founder of Chatbooks. Growing up in a family of 12, I learned the power of big dreams and resilience, I was especially inspired by strong women in her life.

I pursued vocal performance in college, but after getting married young and starting a family, my path shifted. Years later, overwhelmed with mom life, a simple moment with my youngest child sparked the idea for Chatbooks—proving that sometimes, our biggest opportunities come from unexpected places.

In this episode I share the early struggles of entrepreneurship—running out of money, making mistakes, and launching ideas that flopped. But a viral video changed everything, reinforcing that fear and failure are just part of the process.

I encourage you to embrace discomfort, take action even when it’s messy, and recognize the value of your own stories. The dream you start with may not be the one you end up chasing, but what matters is having the courage to pursue something. I hope a part of my journey can inspire yours. 

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Tamron Hall is a two-time Emmy Award-winning TV host, executive producer of her own syndicated talk show Tamron Hall, veteran journalist, and bestselling author. She’s spent decades honing her interviewing skills—from breaking news to deep, heartfelt conversations on the Today show. And today, we’re diving into something that is the driving force of everything she does– curiosity. 

Curiosity has shaped her ability to connect deeply with people and has influenced the way she approaches motherhood. It’s also the inspiration behind her latest book, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid, a beautiful celebration of wonder, exploration, and the power of asking questions.

In this conversation, we’ll explore why curiosity is more than just a skill—it’s a superpower. One that opens doors, deepens relationships, and sparks lifelong learning. We’ll talk about how curiosity has shaped Tamron’s journey, how we can cultivate it in ourselves and our kids, and why asking the right questions can change everything.

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3:24 How Tamron became Grand Marshal for Black History Month at Disney World 

5:52 Tamron's story of IVF and becoming a mother at 48

7:01 Tamron's experience with fear after the pandemic 

9:11 Why curiousity is an opportunity to combat fear in all of our relationships 

18:41 Taking community for granted 

22:55 Trying to save your child from feeling uncomfortable and learning why that is harmful

29:36 What one thing we can do to bring more curiousity into our lives

Moms, let’s be real—parenting is a wild ride, full of ups and downs, curveballs, and unexpected turns. But what if there was a way to make those ups and downs a little easier to handle? That’s where your mental health baseline comes in.

Today, I’m talking with my friend Julie Taylor, a writer, mom, and someone who just gets it. We’re breaking down what a mental health baseline is, how to boost it, and why taking care of yourself isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.

And trust me, Julie is the perfect person for this conversation—not only does she have a way of making deep topics feel so relatable, but she also speaks from raw, personal experience. A little over a year ago, Julie lost her infant son at birth—a loss that completely changed her understanding of resilience, grief, and what it truly means to rebuild your emotional baseline.

Her wisdom comes from lived experience, and I know her perspective will resonate with so many of you.

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8:30 How to determine your baseline in mental health 

14:45 Julie's experience with grief 

21:00 Do what you say you're going to do for a mental health boost 

23:15 Trust the times and seasons 

24:10 Try something new, or return to a past hobby 

26:15 Not meant to stay in survival mode 

29:00 What helped Julie the most going through grief 

32:30 How to choose connection with your kids that makes a difference 

44:00 You're doing better than you think you are 

45:30 Tell your friends the good in them 

47:00 Our limitations are invitations for collaborations