Mentally Flexible

Mentally Flexible, hosted by Tom Parkes.

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Matthieu Villatte, PhD | Relational Frame Theory (RFT) & Consciousness

Matthieu Villatte, PhD | Relational Frame Theory (RFT) & Consciousness

My guest today is Matthieu Villatte, PhD. Matthieu is a psychology trainer and consultant who obtained his doctoral degree in psychology in France, and completed a post-doctoral fellowship at the University of Nevada under the mentorship of Steven Hayes, PhD.  Matthieu Villatte is the author of numerous books and chapters on mindfulness, acceptance, experiential therapies, and contextual behavioral science, such as the first manual published in French on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Mastering the Clinical Conversation: Language as Intervention. He is also a peer-reviewed trainer in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy recognized by the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science (ACBS) and has facilitated hundreds of clinical trainings all over the world.

 

Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- The impact of Mastering the Clinical Conversation
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What is was like working in Steven Hayes’ lab
- Relational Frame Theory (RFT)
- Our innate capacity for language at birth
- The implications of RFT on human suffering
- The inseparable nature of language and consciousness
- And how the complexities of clinical work can become more fluid with experience

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Matthieu’s website: https://matthieuvillatte.com/

Mastering the Clinical Conversation: https://a.co/d/iWduMiA

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Dr. William Miller | Charting a Path Through Uncertain Times

Dr. William Miller | Charting a Path Through Uncertain Times

My guest today is Dr. William Miller - Emeritus Distinguished Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of New Mexico. Dr. Miller is a codeveloper of Motivational Interviewing (MI) which has been implemented and researched in an array of settings over the past 4 decades. Dr. Miller’s research has focused particularly on the treatment and prevention of addictions and more broadly on the psychology of change. He is a recipient of two career achievement awards from the American Psychological Association and has published 65 books and over 400 articles and chapters. Dr. Miller’s new book is called 8 Ways to Hope: Charting a Path through Uncertain Times, which we discuss in this episode.


Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- A bit of Tom’s background with Motivational Interviewing
- The many facets of hope
- Trust, optimism, and false hope 
- Some of Dr. Miller’s personal story
- Addiction, trauma, and psychedelic-assisted therapy
- And the role of meaning and purpose in hope

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Dr. Miller’s website: https://williamrmiller.net/

8 Ways To Hope: https://a.co/d/cJm9A2E

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Alec Pollard, PhD | When a Loved One Won't Seek Mental Health Treatment

Alec Pollard, PhD | When a Loved One Won't Seek Mental Health Treatment

My guest today is Alec Pollard, PhD. Alec is founding director of the Center for OCD & Anxiety-Related Disorders at Saint Louis Behavioral Medicine Institute, and professor emeritus of family and community medicine at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. He is a licensed psychologist with a special interest in the study and treatment of individuals with anxiety and emotional disorders who refuse or otherwise fail to benefit from evidence-based treatment. Alec has authored or coauthored more than one hundred publications and leads the Family Consultation Team at Saint Louis Behavioral Medicine Institute.


Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:

- The story behind writing When a Loved One Won’t Seek Mental Health Treatment

- Different types of recovery avoidance

- Creating an intentional action plan for crisis 

- Versions of accommodation that can arise within family dynamics

- The importance of staying connected to valued activity

- What it looks like to create a family recovery plan

- And how to effectively help loved ones move towards recovery 


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Saint Louis Behavioral Medicine Institute: https://slbmi.com/

When a Loved One Won’t Seek Mental Health Treatment: https://a.co/d/cDFJtBu 

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


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Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth

Stephanie Catella, PsyD | Cultivating Emotional Intelligence

Stephanie Catella, PsyD | Cultivating Emotional Intelligence

My guest today is Stephanie Catella, PsyD. Steph is a clinical psychologist with expertise in transdiagnostic cognitive behavioral therapy for trauma, anxiety, and building emotional intelligence. After completing fellowships at the San Francisco VA and University of California San Francisco, she codirected the Berkeley Cognitive Behavioral Therapy clinic. In addition to her private practice, she is the author of an FDA approved prescription digital therapeutic for Fibromyalgia, and is a consultant and content creator for innovative mental health and tech companies. Dr. Catella is a coauthor of The Emotional Intelligence Skills Workbook which we explore in this episode.

Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:

- How Steph got into the field of psychology and mental health
- The difference between emotional intelligence and intellectual intelligence
- How emotional skills can be hindered in childhood
- Tolerating, coping, and accepting emotions
- How emotional intelligence impacts our relationships
- The importance of emotional intelligence for the therapeutic relationship 
- People pleasing and passive-aggressive behavior
- The concept of “Kid Jobs” within our family dynamics

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Dr. Catella’s website: https://drstephcatella.com/

Emotional Intelligence Skills Workbook: https://a.co/d/05G2iF0q

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


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Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth

Adam Alter | Getting Unstuck When It Matters Most

Adam Alter | Getting Unstuck When It Matters Most

Adam Alter is a Professor of Marketing at New York University’s Stern School of Business with an affiliated appointment in the NYU’s Psychology Department. Adam is the New York Times bestselling author of two books: Irresistible (March, 2017), which considers why so many people today are addicted to so many behaviors, from incessant smart phone and internet use to video game playing and online shopping, and Drunk Tank Pink (2013), which investigates how hidden forces in the world around us shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. His latest book, Anatomy of Breakthrough, explores how people get stuck in life and ways to free themselves to thrive. Adam has also written for places like the New York Times, New Yorker, Washington Post, and The Atlantic.

Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- Adam’s background and how it led to his research interests
- How vulnerability creates shared bonds 
- The different types of “stuckness” and their ubiquitous nature
- The heart, head, and habit levels of getting unstuck
- The concept of “lifequakes” 
- Stuckness in our professional lives
- The value in holding things lightly and making space for silence 
- And the trap of “more is better”

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Adam’s website: https://adamalterauthor.com/

Anatomy of a Breakthrough: https://a.co/d/0e0yJYXt

Irresistible: https://a.co/d/07Yf02Q6

Drunk Tank Pink: https://a.co/d/05zQPeok

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


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Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth

Dr. Frank Anderson | Authenticity, Trauma, and Healing

Dr. Frank Anderson | Authenticity, Trauma, and Healing

My guest today is Dr. Frank Anderson, MD. Frank is a Harvard Medical School school trained psychiatrist, therapist, speaker, author, and trauma specialist. He has spent the past three decades studying neuroscience and trauma treatment, serving as a leader within the Internal Family Systems therapy model. His latest book is an incredible memoir called, To Be Loved: A Story of Truth, Trauma, and Transformation.

Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:

- How truth and authenticity guided the writing of Frank’s memoir 
- How shame can be an indicator of our level of healing
- How working on ourselves enriches our ability to support others
- The need to unite and integrate the different models of therapy and healing
- The transition from being mentored to mentoring others
- Frank’s thoughts on the use of social media for teaching and healing 
- What it means to truly heal a wound
- The Three R’s: repeating, repressing, or repairing


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Dr. Anderson’s website: https://www.frankandersonmd.com/

To Be Loved: https://a.co/d/7jWLggv

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/


Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth


Dr. Mark Shrime, MD | The Transformative Power of Purpose

Dr. Mark Shrime, MD | The Transformative Power of Purpose

My guest today is Dr. Mark G. Shrime, MD. Dr. Mark is the International Chief Medical Officer at Mercy Ships and a Lecturer in Global Health and Social Medicine at the Harvard Medical School. He is the author of Solving for Why: A Surgeon's Journey to Discover the Transformative Power of Purpose (Hachette 2022).


He has spoken at the United Nations, WHO, Harvard, Princeton, and around the world addressing issues of healthcare inequity, moral injury in the healthcare workforce, and the non-health outcomes of health policies. In 2018, he was awarded the Arnold P. Gold Humanism in Medicine Award by the American Academy of Otolaryngology—Head and Neck Surgery.


Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- Moving to the US from Lebanon as a child
- What it was like growing up within an immigrant family context
- Pressures faced to go into medicine
- Dr. Mark’s process of finding his purpose
- How fear and uncertainty keep us from making changes in life
- And how embracing failure can be a catalyst for growth


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Dr. Shrime’s website: https://www.markshrime.com/

Solving for Why: https://a.co/d/7jWLggv

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/


Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth


Dr. Carrie Hayward | The Being Human Collection

Dr. Carrie Hayward | The Being Human Collection

My guest today is Dr. Carrie Hayward. Carrie is a clinical psychologist and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) specialist from Australia dedicated to helping individuals lead more meaningful lives. Carrie is also an author and has recently published the amazing Being Human series, a collection of four narratives that delve into the complexities of our shared human experience. The Being Human series seeks to equip readers with the psychological resilience and flexibility needed to live meaningful lives even through difficulty. The four books each focus on a different aspect of the human condition, providing teachings and practical processes for readers to implement.


Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- How Carrie first got into ACT
- What it was like training with Russ Harris
- The inspiration for the Being Human collection
- How focusing on the process versus outcomes changes the nature of our experiences
- Ways validating seeking can be seen from many different levels 
- And we end with Carrie walking us through the Being Human Method


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Dr. Hayward’s website: https://www.carriehayward.com/

The Being Human Collection: https://a.co/d/2zampofd

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/


Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth

Dr. Brian Thompson & Dr. Brian Pilecki | ACT-Informed Exposure

Dr. Brian Thompson & Dr. Brian Pilecki | ACT-Informed Exposure

My guests today are Brian Thompson, PhD and Brian Pilecki, PhD, two of the authors of ACT-Informed Exposure for Anxiety


Brian L. Thompson, PhD, is a licensed psychologist; and director of the anxiety clinic at Portland Psychotherapy in Portland, OR. He specializes in working with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive and related disorders, and has published research in these areas.


Brian C. Pilecki, PhD, is a clinical psychologist at Portland Psychotherapy who specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders, trauma, and matters related to the use of psychedelics. Brian also has extensive experience in the areas of mindfulness and meditation, and incorporates them into his therapy with clients. He is an active researcher and has published on topics such as anxiety disorders, mindfulness, and psychedelic-assisted therapy.


Some of the topics we explore include:
- How both Brians were first introduced to ACT
- What inspired writing ACT Informed Exposure for Anxiety
- The importance of willingness in exposure work
- The types of challenges people face where exposure may be helpful
- How exposure can be fluidly integrated into a much broader scope of clinical challenges
- Helpful and unhelpful ways to consider values in exposure work
- Exposure Hierarchies vs Menus 
- Overlaps and differences between traditional habituation and ACT approaches to exposure

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Portland Psychotherapy: https://portlandpsychotherapy.com/

ACT-Informed Exposure for Anxiety: https://a.co/d/5qAh5O7

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Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible:


You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible


Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988


Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/


Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth

Bio of Mentally Flexible

Mentally Flexible, hosted by Tom Parkes, is a podcast that delves into the realms of psychology, mental health, and creativity to help listeners develop mental flexibility. With an open-minded and curious approach, Tom engages in meaningful conversations that aim to provide insights and understanding of oneself, others, and the world.

As a psychotherapist, Tom brings his expertise and knowledge to each episode, exploring various topics related to psychology and mental health. The podcast encourages listeners to adopt a flexible mindset, allowing for growth, adaptability, and a deeper understanding of the complexities of the human mind.

The conversations on Mentally Flexible cover a wide range of subjects, offering valuable insights and practical tools for personal development.

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