The Midlife Mentors

This week, we're joined by the brilliant Dr. Eliza Filby - historian, writer, speaker, and one of the UK’s leading voices on generations and how they’re reshaping work, family, identity, and society itself.

Eliza’s work explores how the beliefs and behaviours of different age groups are evolving in today’s rapidly changing world - from the Bank of Mum and Dad to the shifting sands of career, purpose, and legacy in midlife. 

We dive into what makes this midlife moment so unique, how to bridge the generational divide, and why understanding your time and context can be a superpower.

It’s insightful, thought-provoking, and packed with gold for anyone navigating the complexities of modern midlife.

To connect with Dr Eliza, use the below links:

https://www.instagram.com/dr_eliza_filby/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCS82Ka2wcPerdEGx6Z1d1eA

https://www.tiktok.com/@eliza_filby

https://drelizafilby.substack.com

https://www.elizafilby.com/books

Stuck and not sure how to move forward? Check out our Ibiza Reteat:

https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

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In this episode, we’re joined by the insightful journalist and author, Stephen Armstrong, for a candid conversation about Generation X - those of us sandwiched between the Baby Boomers and Millennials. 

Having seen Stephen’s article 50 And Out in The Independent, where he talked about the future of Gen X, we just knew we had to get him onto our podcast to dig deeper.

Stephen reveals the unique struggles Gen X men face as they hit midlife, from career crossroads to dealing with the weight of unspoken expectations.  We reminisce about the freedom and world of possibility that followed the end of the cold war, backpacking, music and of course, we can't talk about Gen X without touching on the island that defined a generation and inspired one of Stephen’s books - Ibiza. 

Tune in for an eye-opening, fun chat about where we are now, and what it means to be a Gen X-er in 2025.

Read Stephen's Article Here: 

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gen-x-work-jobs-b2727513.html

Connect with Stephen on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/stephenarmstronguk

Find Stephen's books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/author/B0034O40M8

JOIN OUR IBIZA RETREAT: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

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In this episode, we’re diving into something that doesn’t get talked about enough - the double standards at midlife for men and women - in the press and in society as a whole. 

Increasingly, and brilliantly - midlife women are being encouraged to see this stage of their life as empowering and liberating - a positive midlife crisis - as they question their marriages, sexuality and what’s next for them. However, for men, this stage of life is often mocked. They’re labelled as grumpy, broken, or just going through a cliché.

We’ve seen this first-hand. James has faced resistance from female journalists unwilling to even entertain the idea of male midlife struggles — writing it off as “just another moan from a middle-aged man.”

But here’s the truth: both men and women deserve space to evolve, reflect, and grow in this season of life — without shame or judgment.

So today, we’re calling out the bias, sharing our personal experiences, and exploring how we can rewrite the narrative — together.

Let’s get into it.

IBIZA RETREAT: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/

JAMES' BOOK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Midlife-Male-Handbook-Thriving-Andropause/dp/0912106395

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

In this episode  we’re shining a light on a topic that quietly affects almost one in two men by the age of fifty: hair loss.

Now - losing your hair might sound purely cosmetic, but it can gnaw at confidence, self-image and even mental health. So what happens when you decide to take action—publicly?

My guest knows a thing or two about living in the spotlight. You may have seen him masterminding the business behind those signature super-car wraps at Yannimize. Today, Bav parks the Lamborghinis and opens up about something far more personal: his recent hair-transplant journey.

In this episode Bav gets brutally honest about the mirror moment when he said “enough,” the deep-dive research, the process, and why he’s documented every step so other guys don’t have to suffer in silence. We’ll dig into costs, recovery, expectations, and the surprising mental-health lift that no styling product can match.

Whether you’re weighing a procedure yourself, supporting a partner, or just curious, this is worth a listen - there’s a little car chat too!

You can connect with Bav here:

https://www.instagram.com/bhp/

https://www.youtube.com/@yiannimize

Find out more about our Ibiza Retreat here: 

https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

In today’s episode, we’re talking about patience and the often uncomfortable season of waiting. Whether you're waiting for clarity, breakthrough or healing — in your work, finances or relationships - this is for you. 

We’ll explore what it means to wait well, why the pause has purpose, and how to find peace in the in-between. Let’s lean into the stillness and discover what it’s trying to teach us.

Ibiza Retreat: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/

James Book: The Midlife Male Handbook: Thriving Through Andropause

Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Midlife-Male-Handbook-Thriving-Andropause/dp/0912106395

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

Today we’re talking hormones, strength, and sustainable energy for midlife guys - with James.

Six months ago James' bloodwork flagged borderline-low testosterone. He felt it too - sluggish mornings, stubborn belly-fat, zero motivation in the gym. Rather than jump straight to injections, he decided to run a personal experiment. Fast-forward to his latest lab results: his total T is up by almost 50 percent.

So in this short episode James breaks down the exact six-pillar protocol that moved the needle: dialling-in sleep, lifting heavy, fuelling with the right fats and micros, trimming body-fat, taming stress, and clearing out everyday hormone disruptors. Each pillar comes with one action you can start today—no matter your schedule or budget.

Quick caveat before we dive in: James is not a doctor, and this podcast is not medical advice. It’s based on his personal experience.

Ready to turn the dial up on strength, focus, and drive? Grab your coffee—or maybe a glass of water—hit that ‘Do Not Disturb’ button, and let’s get into it!”

If you’d like to join James' transformational in-person workshop for midlife men in central London in May where he’ll be covering this (plus a lot more) check out: jamespdavis.com/jumpsstart

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

On today’s episode we’re tackling the big one: stepping out of that oh‑so‑snug comfort zone so we can finally stretch, grow, and live a little larger and longer.

If you’ve ever felt that quiet itch - a ‘there’s‑got‑to‑be‑more’ whisper - stick around. 

We unpack the science of discomfort, share a couple of our own spectacular stumbles, and give you practical moves to trade safe and small for bold and brilliant.

So, grab your coffee, lace up those metaphorical boots, and let’s get uncomfortable - because that’s exactly where the magic happens. Ready? Let’s dive in.

Grab James' New Book - The Midlife Male Handbook Now - From Amazon, Waterstones or WHSmith

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

If you’ve been following us for a while, you’ll know that we love a good old cold plunge, so when the opportunity came up to speak to Dan Bosomworth, founder of ice bath company Brass Monkey we leapt at it.

We cover Dan’s own journey into cold water therapy, the mental and physical improvements he experienced, and the multitude of benefits cold water immersion can provide. 

From starting out with an old chest freezer in his garage, to building a brand that’s supplying commercial ice bath units globally, this is a really inspirational story, not to mention educational - so take a listen.

For more information:

Brass Monkey Website

Cold Exposure Free Guide

Journal: Brass Monkey Health Blog

Grab James' Book - The Midlife Male Handbook Now - From Amazon, Waterstones or WHSmith

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors

This week we’ve got something a little bit different for you. 

It was recorded live just a couple of days ago at the Ideal Home Show in London where I Claire, interview James about his new book - diving into why he wrote it, what it covers, who it’s for and the key takeaways that will help midlife men as they transition through andropause.

PS listen out for the big reveal in here too about what's next for us!

James' book - The Midlife Male Handbook is available at the below bookshops:

AMAZON

https://tinyurl.com/rafscm7u

WATERSTONES

https://tinyurl.com/jes25exs

WHSMITH

https://tinyurl.com/3asw324w

The Midlife Male Handbook available now:
Amazon
Waterstones
WH Smith

Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful.

For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link:
https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com

Tik Tok: @themidlifementors
IG: @midlifementors