The Super Human Life

In this episode of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank sits down with world-renowned dating coach Connell Barrett to break down the biggest mistakes "nice guys" make in the modern dating world—especially in their 30s. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything "right" but still struggle to attract the women you want, this conversation is for you.

Connell shares powerful insights on building confidence, approaching women with authenticity, and rewriting your dating story so you can start winning in the dating marketplace. They discuss why kindness alone isn’t enough, how to create an attractive dating profile, and why real-life interactions often lead to deeper connections than online dating.

Connell also breaks down the difference between direct vs. indirect approaches, the importance of playfulness in flirting, and why emotional connection beats logical conversation every time. Plus, he gives actionable tips for first dates, reading energy, and creating a safe environment for attraction—all while staying true to who you are as a man.

Key Takeaways From This Episode:

Being a "nice guy" isn’t the problem—a lack of confidence is.

Women crave authenticity and kindness, but they also want a man who knows his worth.

The key difference between being nice vs. being kind can make or break attraction.

Most men struggle with self-doubt and need to own their value.

Online dating is more about marketing than dating—your profile needs to tell a compelling story.

Confidence is one of the most universally attractive traits to women.

Real-life interactions create stronger, more memorable dating experiences.

Quality over quantity—one great connection beats 100 empty swipes.

Approaching women is about authenticity and courage—you don’t need pickup lines, just presence.

Day vs. Night Approaches: Direct works better at night, while indirect is more effective during the day.

Flirting should be playful and emotionally engaging, not robotic or overly logical.

Taking calculated risks in dating can lead to deeper attraction and connection.

Women love a man who leads—planning the date matters.

First dates should be fun and engaging—skip the traditional dinner date trap.

Physical touch (when done right) builds attraction—context and intention are key.

Changing locations on a date can help you gauge her interest and energy.

The men who win in dating are the ones who take bold, authentic action.

If you’ve struggled in the dating world and want to learn how to attract women while staying true to who you are, this episode is packed with game-changing insights that will shift your mindset and results.

Connect with Connell:

Website - https://datingtransformation.com/

Book - https://datingtransformation.com/

IG - https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation/

Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-with-connell-barrett/id1647200555

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In episode 282 of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank Rich sits down with Dr. Samantha Harte to dive deep into the flaws of traditional recovery programs and why breaking free from shame and embracing self-forgiveness is critical for true healing.

Samantha shares her powerful journey through addiction, loss, and transformation—showing us how self-compassion, intuition, and a holistic approach to fitness and nutrition can lead to lasting change. We explore why so many recovery programs fall short, the role of grief in personal growth, and how facing our own mortality can push us toward becoming the best version of ourselves.

She also breaks down the inspiration behind her book, Breaking the Circuit, a modern take on the 12 steps, designed to help anyone—addict or not—rewire their mind for resilience, purpose, and joy.

If you're looking for a new way to approach recovery, personal growth, and transformation, this conversation is a must-listen.

Key Takeaways:

💥 Traditional recovery programs have a high relapse rate—why?

💥 Untreated shame keeps men stuck in addiction.

💥 Self-forgiveness is the key to breaking free.

💥 Pain can either break you or build you—it’s your choice.

💥 Grief can lead to a deeper sense of purpose.

💥 Facing our mortality forces us to make real changes.

💥 Addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s a universal struggle.

💥 Spirituality is a game-changer in recovery.

💥 True healing starts with self-awareness, intuition, and self-compassion.

💥 Movement and fitness should be driven by love, not punishment.

💥 A healthy relationship with food is built on trust, not restriction.

💥 Individualized coaching is the key to long-term success.

🔥 If you’re ready to break free from destructive patterns and rebuild your life, this episode will give you the insights and strategies you need.

About Dr. Samantha Harte:

Dr. Samantha Harte is a physical therapist, author, performing artist, and podcast host. A sober mom of two, she’s been featured on ABC7, CBS, People Magazine, Time Magazine, Best Life, and The New York Post for her expertise in mind-body wellness. Her book, Breaking The Circuit: How to Rewire Your Mind for Hope, Resilience, and Joy in the Face of Trauma, reinvents the 12 steps, offering a fresh perspective on recovery and transformation for anyone ready to turn their pain into power.

Find Michael's books (Surfing For God & Sacred Attachment) - https://amzn.to/3Q93BuZ

Restoring The Sould Men's Event - https://www.restoringthesoulweekend.com/

In this powerful episode of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank Rich sits down with author and licensed professional counselor Michael John Cusick to explore the deep connection between addiction, intimacy, and the search for God. Michael unpacks how pornography creates an illusion of connection while masking a deeper longing for intimacy. He reveals how all addictions can be seen as a pursuit of false intimacy and discusses the critical role that community plays in healing.

The conversation also delves into the impact of mother wounds on men's relationships and their susceptibility to addiction, as well as the common misconception that marriage can "fix" addiction. Michael shares his personal journey from addiction to healing, offering wisdom for men navigating shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking true freedom from addiction and emotional struggles. Michael emphasizes the importance of connection, vulnerability, and identity in the healing process, while also addressing the unique challenges individuals face within faith communities.

Key Takeaways:

✅ Addiction is often a symptom of a deeper longing—one rooted in the search for connection and meaning

✅ Sexual desire is tied to a longing for transcendence and union with God.

✅ Pornography offers an illusion of intimacy but lacks real connection.

✅ Many addictions stem from a need for false intimacy.

✅ Community is essential for true recovery and transformation.

✅ Platforms like OnlyFans create a deceptive sense of real relationships.

✅ Mother wounds can drive men toward unhealthy sources of tenderness and validation.

✅ Marriage does not automatically resolve addiction—healing is a journey of self-discovery and connection.

✅ Sobriety is different from freedom; true freedom is a change in desire, not just behavior.

✅ Shame is one of the biggest barriers to healing and must be addressed for real transformation.

About Michael John Cusick

Michael John Cusick is a Licensed Professional Counselor, spiritual director, speaker, and author dedicated to helping men find true healing from addiction and emotional struggles. His books include Sacred Attachment: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion and Trusting in Divine Love and Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle.

As the founder of Restoring the Soul, Michael equips Christian leaders and individuals worldwide with transformational healing practices. He has also served as a professor at Denver Seminary and Colorado Christian University. Holding two master’s degrees in Pastoral Counseling and Counseling Psychology, Michael brings both professional expertise and personal experience to his work.

He lives in Littleton, Colorado, with his wife and enjoys yoga, hiking, and trail running in the Rocky Mountains.

Connect with Micheal:

Books - https://amzn.to/3Q93BuZ

Website - https://michaeljohncusick.com/

Men's Event - https://www.restoringthesoulweekend.com/

Restoring The Soul - https://restoringthesoul.com/

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In episode 280 of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank Rich and Jay Campbell delve into the importance of hormonal optimization for muscle growth and cognitive function, particularly focusing on the role of peptides and Metformin. They discuss the necessity of understanding hormonal deficiencies before starting peptide therapy, the significance of Metformin in regulating blood sugar and its effects on muscle building, and the lifestyle changes needed to support hormonal health. The conversation also explores various peptides, including growth hormone agonists and mitochondrial optimizing peptides, and their applications in enhancing physical performance and overall health. They discuss the efficacy of specific supplements, the significance of biomarkers, and the impact of structured training on overall life goals. Coach Frank & Jay explore the role of GLP-1 in behavioral changes and its implications for health and addiction recovery. The discussion also touches on the future of health and medicine, particularly in relation to peptides and their safety, emphasizing the need for responsible usage and education in the biohacking community.

Takeaways

• Peptides are effective only when hormonal levels are optimized.

• Metformin helps regulate blood sugar and supports muscle growth.

• Therapeutic testosterone is crucial for men over 30.

• Mitochondrial health is essential for energy production.

• Cycling peptides is necessary to prevent receptor saturation.

• Lifestyle changes can significantly impact hormonal health.

• Consult with knowledgeable physicians for hormone optimization. Supplements can significantly enhance force production and overall performance.

• Sustainability of gains from peptides depends on overall lifestyle choices.

• Young men should prioritize strength training and hormone monitoring.

• Making the gym a priority can lead to broader life improvements.

• A clear fitness goal transforms exercise into a purposeful training regimen. Clearly defined end-stage goals are essential for success.

• GLP-1 drugs can significantly alter behavior and health outcomes.

• The future of medicine may shift towards biohacking and peptides.

Jay Campbell is a 5x international best-selling author,  men's physique champion, and the Owner and Co-Founder of BioLongevity Labs. Widely recognized as a leading expert on hormonal optimization, therapeutic peptides, and  biohacking for health and performance, Jay is on a mission to help individuals break free from the failing "sick care" system and take control of their health.  

Jay’s journey began after a sports injury forced him to rethink traditional approaches to health. Through years of  intense research and personal experience, he uncovered  the power of therapeutic testosterone and peptides - two game-changing tools that transformed his own life and  health. As the founder of BioLongevity Labs, Jay is at the forefront of a revolution, bringing cutting-edge peptides and bioregulators to the world to address cellular regeneration, hormonal balance, and metabolic health.  

Jay’s mission is clear: to inspire and empower others to optimize their health, reverse aging, and unlock their true potential—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Connect with Jay:

IG - https://www.instagram.com/jaycampbell333/

Website - https://jaycampbell.com/

Peptides - https://biolongevitylabs.com/

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Listen to episode 136 - Our Trauma Is A Story We Tell Ourselves w/ Annie Yatch - https://thesuperhumanlife.libsyn.com/ep-136-our-trauma-is-a-story-we-tell-ourselves-w-annie-yatch

Listen to episode 165 - Understanding Trauma & The Impact On Relationships w/ Annie Yatch - https://thesuperhumanlife.libsyn.com/ep-165-understanding-trauma-the-impact-on-relationships-w-annie-yatch

In episode 279 of The Super Human Life, Coach Frank welcomes back behavioral coach & trauma expert, Annie Yatch. The two explore the deep connection between trauma and entrepreneurship. They discuss how many entrepreneurs are driven by past traumas, which can lead to both chaos and success. The discussion emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, authenticity, and emotional intelligence in business relationships, and how these elements can lead to greater success and fulfillment. They also touch on the journey from the head to the heart, highlighting the significance of emotional awareness and connection in both personal and professional realms. 

Annie and Coach Frank explore the intricate relationship between trauma, personal leadership, and emotional well-being. They discuss how trauma affects individuals differently, the importance of understanding one's nervous system, and the gut-brain connection. The conversation emphasizes the significance of finding one's purpose and calling, the role of personal leadership in everyday life, and the necessity of building intimacy in relationships. Ultimately, they define living a superhuman life as an integration of love and connection with oneself and others.

Takeaways

• Almost every entrepreneur is addicted to chaos and problem-solving.

• Trauma often drives entrepreneurs to seek control in their lives.

• The subconscious mind plays a significant role in our behaviors.

• Addressing trauma can unlock greater potential and productivity.

• Vulnerability is crucial for building strong business relationships.

• Authenticity and trust are key components of effective leadership.

• Emotional intelligence can enhance business success.

• The journey from head to heart is essential for personal growth.

• You attract people who resonate with your trauma patterns.

• Younger men doing this work have a competitive advantage. Everything is shutting men down over time.

• Each man's hero's journey is unique and should not be compared.

• Trauma can manifest in various ways, affecting planning and relationships.

• The nervous system's state can indicate deeper trauma patterns.

• Gut health significantly impacts emotional and mental well-being.

• Identifying trauma patterns can lead to discovering one's purpose.

• Personal leadership is essential in both business and personal life.

• Intimacy in relationships requires intentional effort and connection.

• Success should be measured by emotional fulfillment, not just achievements.

Connect with Annie:

IG - https://www.instagram.com/northstarleadership.annie/

Northstar Leadership School - https://northstarleadershipschool.com/

Activate Your Genius - https://annieyatchcoaching.com/

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In episode 278 of The Super Human Life, host Frank Rich interviews Conor Gallagher, author of “Well Ordered Family.” Conor shares insights on parenting a large family, addressing misconceptions about having many children, and discussing the dynamics of family management. He emphasizes the importance of learning from experience, setting goals, and measuring progress in family life. Gallagher also reflects on the depth of marriage commitments and the sacrifices involved in maintaining a successful family. 

In the conversation, Conor and Coach Frank explore the profound themes of life purpose, the importance of rites of passage for young men, and the necessity of instilling a blue collar work ethic in children. They discuss the challenges of modern parenting, emphasizing the need for resilience, responsibility, and hard work. The dialogue also touches on the evolution of family planning and the significance of fitness in developing character. Gallagher shares insights from his experiences as a father of many, advocating for a balanced approach to raising children that prepares them for adulthood. 

Conor discusses the importance of understanding systemic issues in leadership, the significance of positioning individuals for success, and the implementation of a six-part framework for both family and business. He emphasizes the need for accountability through a family scorecard, the teaching of responsibility via chores and allowances, and the navigation of technology and digital policies for children. Gallagher shares personal anecdotes and practical advice for parents and leaders alike, highlighting the balance between discipline and understanding in raising children and leading teams.

Takeaways

• People often misconceive large families as a challenge or game.

• Having more children does not equate to being a better parent.

• The dynamics of parenting remain the same regardless of family size.

• Experience leads to learning from past parenting mistakes.

• Improvement in parenting is a gradual process, not perfection.

• Family management requires intentional planning and organization. Everything we do is just the point to die well.

• Young men today face a crisis due to lack of initiation.

• Parents should focus on raising adults, not just kids.

• Instilling a blue collar work ethic is crucial in today's world.

• Chores correlate directly with future success in adulthood.

• Teaching resilience should extend beyond sports.

• Fitness should be a positive experience, not a punishment.

• Family planning evolves over time and requires adjustments.

• A well-ordered family is built on universal principles of success. Look at the system first when evaluating mistakes.

Connect with Conor:

Website - https://wellorderedfamily.com/

IG - https://www.instagram.com/wellorderedfamily/

Book - https://amzn.to/40whgT9

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Episode 277 of The Super Human Life podcast - How To Find Purpose & Strength Through Surrendering w/ Matt Dawson

Order a copy of Matt's book - Strength In Surrender - https://amzn.to/4eAYeOY

In this conversation, Matt Dawson shares his transformative journey from a life focused on external success to one centered on purpose and service. He discusses the concept of surrender, emphasizing that true strength lies in facing challenges rather than fighting them. Dawson reflects on his struggles with mental health, the importance of self-discovery, and the realization that fulfillment comes from serving others. He also introduces his nonprofit, Dawson's Peak Foundation, which aims to inspire individuals to find their purpose through service, particularly for veterans. In this conversation, Coach Frank and Matt Dawson explore the themes of purpose, personal growth, and the journey from strength to endurance. They discuss how one's purpose evolves over time, the challenges faced in achieving world records, and the importance of balancing life, work, and passion. Matt shares insights from his experiences, including the transformative journey of writing his book, 'Strength and Surrender', which encapsulates his personal challenges and lessons learned along the way.

Takeaways

• Strength and surrender can coexist.

• True strength is found in facing challenges.

• Surrendering is not giving up, but embracing issues.

• Self-worth should not be tied to performance.

• Sitting quietly with oneself is a profound challenge.

• Purpose is found in serving others.

• External success does not guarantee internal fulfillment.

• The journey of self-discovery is ongoing.

• Emotional pain can lead to breakthroughs.

• Dawson's Peak Foundation aims to inspire purpose. Understanding your purpose is crucial for personal growth.

• The concept of 'earn, give, live your life' simplifies our mission.

• Purpose evolves as we transition through different life stages.

• Building skills in your 20s is essential before serving others.

• World records can be achieved through perseverance and mental strength.

• Experiencing the 'third man factor' can provide unexpected guidance.

• Transitioning from strength to endurance requires patience and dedication.

• It's important to balance personal ambitions with community service.

• The journey of transformation can be documented and shared through storytelling.

• Living with purpose means continuously pushing yourself outside of comfort zones.

Connect with Dawson online:

Website - https://dawsonspeak.com/

IG - https://www.instagram.com/dawsonspeak

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In episode 276 of The Super Human Life, Michael Kniebel shares his personal journey of overcoming testicular cancer, emphasizing the importance of early detection, the demographics affected, and the emotional challenges faced during diagnosis and treatment. He discusses the role of humor, faith, and dietary changes in his recovery, providing insights and encouragement for others facing similar struggles. In this conversation, Coach Frank and Michael Knebel discuss the profound impact of Michael's testicular cancer diagnosis on his life, family, and relationships. They explore themes of legacy, the importance of brotherhood, and the lifestyle changes Michael has made to manage his health. Michael shares his journey of writing a journal for his children, the strength of his marriage, and how humor has helped him navigate dark times. The discussion culminates in Michael's insights on living a purposeful life and the importance of community support.

Takeaways

• Michael wrote the book to help men and families understand testicular cancer.

• Testicular cancer primarily affects men aged 18 to 35.

• Early detection is crucial for successful treatment.

• Fear often prevents men from seeking medical help promptly.

• The diagnosis process can be quick once a lump is found.

• Testicular cancer is one of the best understood cancers.

• Dietary changes can play a role in recovery.

• Faith and support from loved ones are vital during treatment.

• Michael emphasizes the importance of humor in coping with cancer.

• Awareness and education about testicular cancer are essential. 

• Legacy is about showing resilience to your children.

• Brotherhood is essential for navigating life's challenges.

• Marriage can grow stronger through adversity.

• Lifestyle changes are crucial for health management.

• Finding humor in dark times can provide strength.

• Purpose comes from living according to core values.

• Being open to new experiences enriches life.

• Health management requires regular check-ups and lifestyle adjustments.

• Sharing experiences can help others facing similar challenges.

Connect with Michael:

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kickingcancerintheballs/

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